How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success?
Things that go opposite to our expectations, dreams, and hard work should not be seen as a failure. It’s a redirection.
We will weep, scream, hate , curse … . Why me? That’s unfair! But, one day we will understand how we’ve been saved and guided. One day when we look back over past years, we’ll understand how that all was a redirection and we’ve succeded in a different way, making different things.
What we really need to do is that after our every explosive reaction to that hateful news of failure is to not give up, to not freeze at that spot. One gate is closed, but others will be opened.
And, one more thing, be honest to yourself for, perhaps, you are the main cause of the failure.
That’s how I’ve learned to see things and keep going after every redirection in my life.
By the way, is success merely admitted by gaining a certificate, a position, fortune, fame…. I don’t think so.
God knows the best,
With all the best wishes,
Nahla
Pure and Simple 