Have you ever promised someone something?
Of course I have, we all do.
Have you been true to your promise?
Hmm … sometimes, most of the times.
Have you ever broken any?
Well… I can’t remember
Can you trust someone who breaks their promise, who couldn’t stand by their word?
Never … but unless it was inevitable.
Would your answers be any similar?
You might forgive once, but when things happen twice or more, nothing can heal the wound of mistrust. It’s better not to give a promise at all than to give one with any possibility of being unable to keep it. It’s not only unethical to break a promise, but also heartbreaking, disappointing, and deceiving.
However, what if the promise itself is impossible, dangerous, or unethical? Would you blindly, stubbornly fulfill it? Or would you listen to your heart and reason, and break it?
That’s what the new book I am currently reading is all about. A girl, in her early twenties, gives her bedridden mother a promise to move and live with her aunt after her death. From the very beginning, starting with the cold letter she receives from her aunt, to the long, miserable journey she makes, to people’s fear and shock about her destination, to the first sight of her aunt and her husband, everything seems to be shouting at her to break her promise and forget about it. If her mother were able to rise from her grave, she would do, so just to tell her daughter to forget about that mistaken promise and flee from her Aunt’s house. But, the girl, full of curiosity and stubbornness, stuck to the promise all the same.
I’ll let you know more when I finish it.
With all the best wishes,
Nahla
P.S. The promise is not the title of the book
